Wednesday, November 4, 2009

Halloween & End of the Blog


Halloween is my favorite holiday. So I am very glad we live in a neighborhood with lots of kids.

Last year, we did a haunted house theme. I was a witch and poor George was a bumblebee. John did a great job on lights and sound. Although, most of the small kids were too scared to come up to the house and get candy. One girl wanted to know if we knew we had a "storm" in our upstairs because of the flashing strobe.
This year we went a little more friendly, with a pirate treasure theme. I was a fancy pirate woman, George was my trusty sidekick sailor and Thomas was my parrot on the arm. John again was the light and tech guy. We had family and friends over to help celebrate and to go trick or treating in the neighborhood. The video is very dark and you can't see Thomas and I in costume at the end. But the first part gives you an idea of the treasure theme.


I've enjoyed doing the blog. It gave me something to work on when we were waiting on Russia. I always found it kind of sad when others ended their blogs. But like any good book, the Traveling to Thomas story is over and we are moving on to everyday life. Thanks for following along.

Wednesday, October 14, 2009

Home 3 Months


We've hit the 3 month mark. This month, really seemed to fly by where as the previous months I really felt like we were slugging our way through. The picture of Thomas and George looks like it was staged but funny enough, it was natural. I told Thomas I wanted to take his picture, since he looked so cute in his sweater. When I got the camera out, George sat down behind Thomas and posed, and I clicked the picture as fast as I could before anybody moved.

Thomas is happy and healthy. He's gained 3 lbs., grown an inch and a half and his head has grown an inch, so all good signs. Since last month, his two top molars are coming in and his appetite has really picked up. He's started walking. Within a week, he went from one or two tentative steps to walking from room to room by himself.

I also caught him dancing to an 80's radio station....
This month we also visited the Nashville Zoo and went to our county's Touch-A-Truck day. It's a Saturday, where they pull in about 40 different types of trucks into a parking lot and let the kids sit in the cabs, honk the horns and steer the steering wheels. They can also walk through ambulances, a bus and watch a garbage truck pick up cans with its arm over and over again. Thomas was too young to appreciate it, but he enjoyed watching all the other kids that were there. Its a unique event.

I think its going to be time to end the blog, the title and purpose was "Traveling to Thomas". Thomas is home and our travels are over. I'll post some Halloween pictures as our last "hurrah".

Sunday, October 11, 2009

First Birthday










Thomas had his first birthday and his first experience with cupcake icing. He enjoyed the icing but not the cake.
Thank you A & T in Oregon and M in Texas for surprising us with presents!

Tuesday, September 15, 2009

Home 2 Months


We've now been home two months. Thomas is a delightful little boy, I guess he's no longer considered a baby as his first birthday is coming up in few days. He loves to play and laugh and is very curious on how things work. He's very reserved and quiet when we are out in public but at home he's a non-stop, on the move, chatterbox. He sleeps well and his eating is picking up. He loves to take walks and watch the kids in the neighborhood play. We've also been going to the library for Toddler Time once a week. He has 2 English words "daddie" and "baby" and several sounds he uses to get his point across. He knows his name and he knows who George is. He loves technology and pushing buttons. George the dog, is doing fine with Thomas. For being an older dog of 11 with no previous experience with children, George is very tolerant. All in all, we are settling into a routine




Tuesday, August 11, 2009

Home One Month




Thomas is keeping us busy. In some ways, our time in Russia seems like 4 months ago and not 4 weeks. We've made a lot of progress in the last month. Thomas likes to take a bath. Most orphanage kids come to the US not liking baths due to whatever their previous experience was in the orphanage. Thomas was no exception and would stand and scream in the bath tub. He also did not like his car seat or to sit and be confined anywhere (stroller, high chair, etc.) This past week we've worked on driving somewhere fun for short visits and its seemed to help. Our next goal is to work on liking grass. You can tell he's just not comfortable walking or touching grass. Its been so hot and humid here that we've been staying inside so at some point we'll get out and get used to grass.


Thomas is on the verge of walking. He has always pulled himself up but now he lets go with one hand and sometimes lets go with both if he gets distracted with a toy.

He loves to watch cars drive by on the street as we walk. He also really tries hard to get a hold of the remote controls, or to try and break into the child proof cabinets.


The biggest adjustment has been for the dog. George is very gentle with Thomas, even when Thomas steps on him or tries to touch his face. But George is depressed about the whole situation.

Thomas will be turning 11 months old in a few days. He will also be returning to the pediatrician for his 1 month home visit. It will be interesting to see how much he's grown. He seems like he has grown in both height and weight. He eats well but will not eat the pureed meats in the baby food jars. George thinks the pureed meats are great.

Wednesday, July 22, 2009

10 Days Home

The first week home was hard. After about the third day, Thomas seemed to adjust to the American time zone and stopped trying to start his day at 3 in the morning. After being gone for 3 weeks, it took about a week to get all the house stuff organized, mail read and laundry done, all those back to life things. This week we're going to try and apply for his Social Security card and take him for a blood draw to test for infectious diseases. Each day gets a little better as we figure out what he's trying to tell us and we get settled into a routine.

Sunday, July 12, 2009

40 Hours of Travel



We are home! The only 2 words to describe our trip is "suffering" and "perseverance". We left the apartment at 9 after David came by to get the keys and say goodbye. We made it to the airport by 10:30 for our 12:55 flight. That's when the suffering started. Due to mechanical problems on an earlier flight to Moscow, the plane had to land in Iceland for repairs and mandatory crew rest. That started a chain reaction of delays that affected us. Our flight was scheduled to leave at 9 something at night. So we had 11 hours of waiting at the Moscow airport. We camped out with our bags between the front windows and a phone sales kiosk,where it was quiet and less bustle. Thomas got 2 short naps in during the day but by the time we were boarding he was super tired and fussy since it was almost 2 hours past his normal bedtime.

On the plane he was fussy and was shrieking before we even pulled away from the gate. By the time we got in the air, he was asleep. He didn't sleep well and kept tossing and turning. We couldn't sleep as we had to stay vigilant that he didn't roll hims
elf off the seat, past our pillow barriers we built to try to contain him. He slept a good 9 hours and awoke with a little less than 2 hours left of the flight. He did well until we had to sit down for the descent and landing then more fussiness and shrieking.

We got into Atlanta close to 1 in the morning. The story was that Delta was going to put up everybody in a hotel until the next morning, when we could get the next connecting flight. They did have about 4 Homeland security personnel processing passports, but for a plane load, it took about 45 minutes. Because Thomas was immigrating to America, we also had to process with the immigration folks all of his Embassy paperwork. The 2 am staff was probably the "C Team" versus the "A Team", as that process took an hour and half. So by the time we got our luggage, went through Customs and got to the Delta counter we were one of the last people through, and all the overnight kits were gone. Delta had re-boo
ked us on an 8'ish am flight to Nashville but we had them push it back to a 1 0'clock flight as I couldn't see us going to the hotel for 2 hours and then coming back to catch the early flight, we needed to try and get some sleep.

We had checked 2 bags and had 2 carry-ons. The counter agent wanted to re-check both bags, but we needed some overnight stuff and more diapers. Thankfully, he let us keep a bag after we said we needed to get some items out and he saw the package of diapers in the suitcase. We then had to go from the International terminal to Ground Transportation, which were the two furthest points from each other. At that time of night the peop
le mover train was shut down. So we had to carry our bags and Thomas the length of the Atlanta airport.

When we got to Ground Transportation we found out the last hotel shuttle bus had left at 3:30 am and it was close to 4. Thankfully, another hotel's shuttle driver offered to drive us for $5 a piece to our hotel. We were a little apprehensive as it w
as too good a deal but thankfully it worked out and he had us at the hotel door in 5 minutes. We checked in and it was a nice room and a big comfy bed. Unfortunately, everything had caught up to Thomas and he just had a complete melt down...nothing would soothe him. I finally strapped on the carrier and we walked the parking lot while he cried. We watched the sun come up. Finally, around 7:30 he fell asleep in the carrier and we headed back inside.

We got about an hour and half of sleep before the alarm went off. It was nice to take a shower and we had one spare change of clean clothes left. We had packed so that we threw out all of our socks, underwear and old clothes in Moscow (we had packed old
ones that I had saved up over the year) so that we would travel lighter on the way back. I had packed a spare for a "just in case moment" and we had the moment. We took shifts going to the breakfast buffet. We then checked out and caught the shuttle to the airport.
At the airport, we found out our Nashville flight was delayed an hour. So more waiting around an airport. Finally, boarded the flight at 2:30. Thomas was the bad kid on the flight, crying most of the time when we couldn't distract him. Thankfully, it was only a 35 minute flight. My parents and brother and nephew met us at the airport. We were very glad to see them. We were walking zombies at this point. We got home around 4 and were in bed for the night by 7.

Thursday, July 9, 2009

Thursday-Final Day

This will be short as we are finishing packing and will be leaving in the morning for the airport back to the US. We hung around the apartment until noon today. Our translator was registering Thomas as a Russian citizen living in the US, which is the final step in our required paperwork process. For our agency, its a requirement to do it here in Russia, but it can be done by contacting one of the Russian Embassies in the US for others. She had to pick up the finished form at 3 so we all drove to Victory Park.

Victory Park is a very large park directly west of downtown Moscow. It is filled with tanks and other military equipment along with a Military museum. We went through quickly but could have spent many more hours there. Lots of WWII display cases and pictures of other Russian cities during the war along with some incredible dioramas of different battles. We missed seeing all of it as we had to leave to pick up our paperwork.

We had dinner back at the apartment, using up the last of our food. After dinner we strolled to Tverskaya and I wanted to see if we could find Gastronom #1 or now called Eliseevskiy Gastronom. According to our guide book, the building was built at the end of the 18th century but it became a grocery in 1901. It has a long history of supplying forbidden goods to the Communist Elite and the owner was executed in 1984 for corruption charges. I remember it from one of my textbooks in school and have always wanted to see it. It did not disappoint. It was everything I wanted it to be: crystal chandeliers, beautiful plaster work and fabulous display cases filled with every kind of food. I quickly took 3 pictures as fast as I could, since I didn't know if it was allowed. People were busy shopping. I bought some tea and found their website on the grocery bag. Until I can get my pictures posted, you can go here to see the company website pictures http://www.eliseevskiy.ru/home.htm

On the way home, we bought ice cream from a kiosk. We then Skype both sets of grandparents, gave Thomas a bath and got him in bed about an hour past his bedtime. Tomorrow, we have the 11 hour flight home with a 9 month old, a 3 hour layover and then a 35 minute flight to Nashville.

Wednesday, July 8, 2009

Tuesday & Wednesday

We've started all the US Embassy processing. On Tuesday morning, I went to the US Embassy, which is in walking distance of our apartment. I was there to turn in all of our paperwork, request a visa for Thomas and get an appointment for the following day to finalize all the immigration paperwork and pick up the visa. Since Thomas is a Russian citizen, he travels on a Russian passport with a visa to visit the US. The great thing is that once we land in Atlanta, he automatically becomes a US citizen, thanks to all this paperwork we're doing ahead of time.

The process took about 15 minutes. There was no one there and I mean literally, I was the only person in the building besides our agency representative and everyone who worked there. It was kind of offsetting to have 2 empty rooms filled with a hundred chairs each and places for long lines to form, but not a single person.

In the afternoon, John went with our driver and translator to officially sign the book at the Ministry of Education. They are the ministry that oversees adoptions and issues the referrals. He was back within the hour.

Thomas woke from his afternoon nap after 4. We were getting hungry and only had pasta and sauce left to cook but didn't really want that for dinner. John walked next door to the TGI Fridays to get take out. He was back in about 5 minutes saying they didn't do take-out. So we were debating on what to do for dinner with Thomas in tow. We were tired and hungry and decided to risk dining in at TGI Fridays rather than getting take out from somewhere on Old Arbat. We were there at 4:30 and there was only one other family there eating. We ordered quickly, figuring Thomas would not last long before getting fussy. He did great. He is just so fascinated and curious to watch all the people around him that he was very quiet. It turned out about 10 times better than I was expecting. I was expecting to be eating in shifts as we entertained a fussy baby. Funny enough, TGI Fridays does do take-out. The lady, who told John earlier that they didn't, came over and said she made a mistake.

After dinner, feeling re-energized, we got the stroller and strolled the neighborhood. We walked for awhile past all the embassies and eventually swung back around to New Arbat. We passed the grocery, we usually go to. John ran into the grocery to re-supply for our last 2 days, while Thomas and I waited outside with the stroller.

On Wednesday, we had our Embassy interview at 2, so our morning was free. We wanted to see the Metro. The Moscow Metro has beautiful stations, with different themes. Some stations were built in the 1930's and have art deco chandeliers, lots of plaster work, murals and stonework. We packed Thomas up in the Ergo carrier (which is excellent by the way...very comfortable and Thomas likes it) and rode the metro. We stopped at about 4 different stations, waited for the crowd to clear and then took pictures and strolled the stations. Thomas fell asleep. The metro was great. A ride costs 22 rubles which is roughly 70 cents US, and once you get on, you can ride the entire system as much as you want stopping at whatever stations you want. There was a large tour group from the US (Viking River Cruises) visiting the last station as we were getting off.

Our driver picked us up outside the last station. Our translator said we needed to have a family picture. We then drove to Red Square to have the traditional family picture in front of St. Basil's Cathedral (the cathedral with fancy colored domes). We drove back to the apartment to have a little lunch, a diaper change and a rest before the Embassy appointment.

At the Embassy, we again just sailed through. There was one adoptive family in front of us, picking up their papers. After waiting a few minutes, it was our turn. The guy at the window was very nice. We answered a few questions about how our trip was going. We confirmed Thomas's information, signed some documents and he told us what to expect at immigration when we fly to Atlanta. We got Thomas's passport with the US visa and a packet of papers to give to immigration and were on our way.

Thomas fell asleep in the car on the way back. We got him in the apartment and back to sleep. Dinner is in the oven (baked fish, french fries and I'll heat up some peas). We may stroll tonight as the weather is nice.

Monday, July 6, 2009

Sunday and Monday

We've had a quiet two days. The weather has been cold (50's) and raining so we've stayed in the apartment. We're trying to maintain Thomas's schedule as much as possible, as he is a much happier baby when he gets his two 2 hour naps a day from 9 to 11 and then again from 2 to 4. The first night he took a while to settle down and didn't go to sleep until past 9:30 (he was supposed to be in bed at 8) He woke at 1 and again at 2 crying but went back to sleep quickly and then was up to start his day at 6. We must have worn him out yesterday. Last night, he was down asleep by 8:30 and slept all the way through the night until 7:30 this morning.

Today, Thomas had his medical exam at a Moscow children's clinic. This is a requirement by the US Embassy for him to immigrate to the US. He checked out fine. Our translator and driver went this afternoon to pick up his Russian passport that we applied for on Friday. Tomorrow, I will go with our translator to schedule the "exit" interview at the US Embassy for Wednesday.

All the news on tv and the radio has been about President Obama coming to visit. The Russia Today (English) news has been featuring the Obama Countdown all last week in preparation for his visit. Here's a cute video of John and Thomas...

Sunday, July 5, 2009

I've Got Wheels

This video was from Sunday, June 21, when we went to visit the orphanage the day before court. Thomas liked having wheels to go but unfortunately we needed a little more space.

Saturday July 4th Video

Saturday, July 4, 2009

Fantastic Fourth



Today was the day, we picked up Thomas from the orphanage. We packed a bag with his clothes, a bottle of juice, some extra diapers, a few toys and a one piece winter outdoor suit and hat. It was pretty cold here today for being July...low 60's. They were very nice at the orphanage. They removed all of his clothes and we dressed him in his American clothes. The caretakers said he looked like an "American boy". We brought gifts for the head doctor and all the caretakers and nurses. They fed Thomas his final meal and gave us his favorite pacifier. We showed them pictures of where Thomas was going to and they all said good-bye and hugged him.



We left and got in the van. Vladimir had set up a car seat in the back with us. Apparently, Russia passed a new law requiring car seat use. They still do not have back seat belts, though. Thomas was very quiet for the hour and half, all the way to Moscow. He mostly sat and watched what was going on. There may be some hope for our 11 hour plane ride to Atlanta that it won't be entirely miserable.

At the apartment, David had set up the crib/playpen and left some toys, baby food, a baby carrier and extra sheets/towels. He also left a big stuffed bear, and an Australian coin collection for 2009 as gifts. That was very nice of him. Thomas played for a little while with John. We gave him some juice and got him down for his 2:00 nap at around 3. Both John and him are napping now. We're going to try to keep on his orphanage schedule as much as possible.




Friday

On Friday, we drove back to the Moscow Regional Court to pick up the court decree declaring us the parents of Thomas Alexander. We then drove to city hall to get his new birth certificate listing us as the parents. We then drove around the outside loop of the city to the south side to go to the immigration office. Since it was lunch time and the office would be closed. We went to a large grocery store/general merchandise store (like a Walmart) and bought baby food, diapers, bottles, etc. They had a Sbarro's in the store. Our translator said we were still too early for the office so please eat lunch. So we had pizza.

After filing for his passport at the Immigration office. We drove back into Moscow to take all the paperwork to the CSS office. We were then done for the day and got home around 4.

We decided to walk south of our apartment on the other side of the Moscow River. We were following one of the recommended walks in our guide book. So far none of the "recommended walks" have been that impressive. They mostly point out some non-descript building and say that "so and so" famous Russian writer or poet lived or worked here. This walk was about the same. It did take us to the foot of the Peter the Great statue (pictured in an earlier post), so we got a close up of that.

We walked by a Starlite Diner car and on the way back had dinner there. Some American bought an old diner car and moved it to Moscow and serves hamburgers, milk shakes and other American food, while decorating the inside with a 50's theme. John had a hamburger and fries and I had a chicken sandwich. Apparently, it was so popular that he has now placed several of the diners throughout the city. Even though, the food and atmosphere were American our waitress only spoke Russian, but we got everything we ordered.

We then took a Moscow River boat ride. It was ok. It started to rain while we were on the boat. We were covered by a roof deck, but it was chilly. Luckily, it let us out near New Arbat street, where our apartment is. We stopped at the grocery store on the way home and then headed to bed.

Thursday, July 2, 2009

Thursday

We visited Thomas today. The next time we come, on Saturday, we will be picking him up for good. We spent our time outside. I asked for his baptism certificate since he wears a little cross necklace around his neck. The orphanage couldn't find his certificate but did give me his Christening gown. I call it a gown, for lack of a better word, but its a simple woven white cotton shirt with some embroidery. A real treasure for future years. After our visit, we went back to the office to fill out the six documents needed for the US Embassy to add to our documents we brought from home: our home study, employment pay stubs and last three years of tax returns.

I'm going to try and upload a video of a room at the Kuskovo estate to see if I can do it, in preparation for when we can post pictures and videos of Thomas.

Wednesday-Tourist Day


Today, we went to the Cosmonaut museum and Kuskovo Estate. John enjoyed the Cosmonaut museum. They had some nice displays including space food.

Outside the Cosmonaut museum they had some gardens with statues dedicated to different men who contributed to science, including a very impressive, modern flight statue.









After the Cosmonaut museum, our translator wanted us to see the Kuskovo estate. The Sheremetev family, in which one of the airports is named after, was a wealthy family that entertained the czar's. It was built in the mid to late 1700's and contained the main house, a formal garden, guest houses, a church, a green house (orangery) that now contains a ceramic museum and an Italian grotto. The Italian grotto was fascinating. It was totally unexpected inside. It had an under-the-sea theme and was inlaid with shells, glass, sand and mother-of-pearl shells. The picture doesn't do it justice. The main house still contains the original wood parquet floors,
paintings and some furniture. It was very lavish with gold gilding and crystal chandeliers. We were very glad that Violet suggested our visit.


Tuesday, June 30, 2009

Monday & Tuesday

I can't believe how fast the time is going. We are at the 1/2 way point of our trip. On Monday, we switched apartments. This was part of our agreement with the guy we were renting from. The apartment we were in was being renovated on July 1st. The apartment we were in was the same one we stayed in on first trip so we wanted the comfort factor of familiarity. We were on the 19th floor so we had a gorgeous panoramic view of Moscow. One of my favorite things to do was sit in the kitchen, with a glass of bad Russian wine and watch the sun set over the city. With the new apartment we are in the same building, in the exact same apartment location just 15 floors lower on the 4th floor, so now we just see the buildings next to us. The apartment is very comfortable. Back when I was sick with my cold, I commented to John that I was glad I could go sleep in the bedroom and close the door and he could do what he wanted in the family room rather than being in a one room hotel.

On Monday night, we had dinner with another family that was adopting with our agency, they were here for court. We met at TGi Fridays and had a nice dinner. It was fun to get together with them and see pictures of their son and just visit and hear about their experience. They were flying home the next day to wait out the 10 days at home.

On Tuesday, we went to visit Thomas. He was still napping, so they had to wake him. He was actually sleeping outside. They have playpens in the shade that the children sleep in, believing that the fresh air is good for them. The caretaker brought him in along with a cute girl, who is also being adopted by an American couple. He was bundled from head to toe with sleeper, hat and a sleeper suit. The only thing you could see was in round face, the rest of his body looked like the Michelin man...all padded and stiff. They believe in overdressing the children, and even though it was 73 degrees, they dress them as if its 40 degrees. He glanced at us and we both thought there was a slight look of recognition on his face when he saw us. He's so young at 9 months, its hard to tell what he's thinking. As far as we know...we're just the people that pop in and out of life for a few hours and give him continous attention. He does show a strong preference to being carried as we walk rather than going in the stroller, though.

After the orphanage, we had our driver drop us at the entrance to Old Arbat street. Its a pedestrian street with lots of tourist stuff. We went and ate at My-My's again. We're getting a little more daring with our food selection. An older guy in front of us (its cafeteria style) picked something that looked good...a fried triangle of something. We both got it also along with fried potatoes and mushrooms and an unknown white sauce with dill. It turned out to be a pork cutlet. I was really wanting some vegetables. I chose a cabbage/carrot salad. You are supposed to stay away from fresh vegetables as they are washed with the local water and has the possibility of messing up your stomach. I figured they'd been pickled in some vinegar. Vinegar will kill the stuff that makes you sick, so I figured I was safe. We then walked to the grocery and picked up as much as we could carry home.

On Wednesday, we're having a tourist day. We've hired Violett and Vladimir, our driver, to take us to the Cosmonaut museum. We thought we may also go to the Russian Military museum (very much a "man" day) but Violett suggested she wanted to take us to an estate slightly out of town that the Czar's would visit. So we'll go with her suggestion.

Lastly, I wanted to say "hello" to Audrey in Oregon!
Jill

Monday, June 29, 2009

Pictures of Moscow






We've spent some time walking the city, exploring the neighborhoods. Here's what we've found...

Saturday, June 27, 2009

Friday & Saturday

John and I walked to the Kremlin on Friday morning to visit the Armory Museum. We struggled a bit to figure out where to buy tickets and where to find the entrance in the wall of the Kremlin for the museum. There is a large red brick wall that surrounds all the churches, current government buildings, historical buildings and parks that make up the Kremlin that date back to 1156. We found the right line and after going through security, found there was another line inside the wall to get into the museum building. After entering the building, we wound around, stood in another line and then found the English Audio Guides.

We enjoyed the museum. Saw all kinds of things encrusted with jewels...guns, swords, bible covers, goblets, platters, robes, religious icon frames, crowns and even carriages. I had a hard time comprehending why you would have a carriage with diamonds decorating the wheel spokes. The items were so close you could reach out and touch the carriage wheels if you wanted, although I'm sure some alarm would go off. I wondered how many people thought about trying to pry one of the diamonds out. I had no idea there was so much gold and silver, pearls, diamonds, emeralds and other jewels in the museum. Also in the museum are several Faberge eggs and other beautiful items made by the Faberge company. The armory dates from 1511 and has always been used to warehouse the royal gifts and treasures.

We then went ahead and did the architectural tour of the Kremlin. We visited several Russian Orthodox Cathedrals dating from the 1300's through the 1500's. All the churches are in a small area and have unique features. Some are huge cathdedrals with chandeliers and walls of painted frescos and icons while others are very small, dark and are only partially restored. By about the sixth and final church, you start getting church burn-out. They did not allow photographs in any church, unlike Europe.

We took a rest on a bench in The Secret Gardens. They had a lot of impatients planted in color patterns along with a small rose garden. We headed back home, and stopped at the grocery again. With a small apartment refrigerator and the fact that you can only buy as many groceries as you can carry back to the apartment, you run out of groceries fast. I'll remember this when I'm back in the US at the warehouse club store buying jumbo packs of everything that will last me months. We were feeling like Mexican, so we bought stuff to make chicken burritos Russian style. Which was kind of an improv thing as we really didn't have any authentic burrito ingredients other than salsa. But with some canned corn, fried diced potatoes, chicken strips, cheese and the salsa on some kind of Russian flatbread we had Fiesta Friday. I didn't get any sour cream, which would have made them excellent, and the irony is you can always find sour cream in Russia. We did 2 loads of laundry and headed to bed.

On Saturday, David, who we are renting the apartment from, drove us to the Izmaylovo Market. It was much better than I expected. I had visions of the Nashville Flea Market at the Fairgrounds...the junky electronics, the "as seen on tv" products, the off label "designer" purses, etc. On our orphanage days, we drive by the front of the market and it looks like the US flea markets. But we went to the back of the market and in a small contained little area. It was so much better. It was like a European Christmas Market with booths of hand painted items and traditional Russian made souvenirs along with fur hats and lots of old Soviet knick-knacks and military items. We bought some Christmas ornaments, which is what we bring home from every vacation as our trip souvenir. We also got a beautiful hand painted Uzbek blue bowl for under $3 and John bought a big wooden egg painted with St. Basil's Cathedral in winter and a few other items. I thought about bringing home some of the Uzbek plates painted in blues and greens...but decided it would be too hard to get them home while juggling a new baby and all his baby stuff.

We ate dinner at Yalki-Palki, a Russian chain restaurant. John had mushroom soup and chicken cutlets with mashed potatoes and I had Hungarian Goulash. It was ok. The My-My restaurant food was better. We then walked north of our apartment to a church we could see from our window and then over to a very long park with lots of beautiful trees and fountains. We walked the length of the park then turned around and walked until we hit New Arbat street and headed back to the apartment. We decided to live dangerously and bought ice cream from a steet vendor. It wasn't the pre-packaged Nestle bar type but the actual ice cream in a cone. We'll see by tomorrow if that was a mistake. John is missing ice. I'm getting tired of brushing my teeth with bottled water. So far we've been super careful about boiling our water or drinking bottled and avoiding anything rinsed in the water and haven't had any stomach issues. We have no plans for tomorrow yet. So we'll see what we discover.

Friday, June 26, 2009

Thursday's Orphanage Visit

Jill has a bad cold, so I ended up going to the orphanage alone. Svetlana accompanied me. Traffic was terrible, but we still made reasonable time... getting there about 11:45AM. The caregivers were curious about me, asking many questions through Violet, our translator, while they prepared Thomas for my visit. They asked about what I did, what our home was like, and why we were adopting. Thomas apparently had not been willing to eat, so they brought him out with a bottle of compote. He was cute in brown corduroy overalls and had on bright red shoes. Having just risen from a nap, he was quiet for a little bit, just looking around at everything. He is clearly very curious, appears to favor the color red, and can't get enough of feeling buttons, fabrics, and rings. Once his world grows a little larger, I'm sure he'll be busy.

I was showing Thomas a toy lion that had wheels. I spun the wheels several times as he watched. Eventually, he copied me and spun the wheels too. This kept him busy for a little bit, but soon we were in a walker. He had liked it from our previous visit, and this time was no exception. He took off and broke a broad smile as he walked toward me. Because the play room is under construction, we have been visiting Thomas in a small day room that unfortunately did not give him enough space to go before he had to turn around. Still, he went back and forth for some time. The bright red shoes kept coming off while we walked, so they brought a second pair. They lasted a little longer, but came off too. I let him keep going in his socks until he started to tire out. By then, I had no problem feeding him the bottle of compote.

Late in the visit, Svetlana and Violet joined me and they played with him as well... singing some Russian Children's rhymes to him. At the very end, he grew a little fussy but I got him to calm down by showing him his reflection in a mirror. The caregivers then took him for his afternoon nap. We headed back for Moscow, fighting bad traffic all the way to Svetlana's office. There we picked up papers needed for the notary that we will file next Tuesday.

If Jill is feeling better, we will try to go out tomorrow and see the Kremlin Museums.

--John

Wednesday, June 24, 2009

Slow Day

We stayed close to the apartment for much of the day. Jill has been feeling under the weather, so we didn't venture out until the afternoon. We took a walk to Sivtsev Vrazhek Pereulok street -- not far from Novy Arbat. It was where the Gromyko House in Dr. Zhivago was located... and was also a location featured in War and Peace. We followed it to its end and were near Cathedral of Christ the Savior, seat of the Russian Orthodox Church, so we decided to spend some time again there. We had briefly visited the Cathedral on our first trip with our translator, but knew there were more exhibits to see in the lower level. We stopped at a grocery on the way back to buy some staples for dinner.

Tomorrow, we go to see Thomas at the orphanage. Jill may stay back and rest, but I'll go and see Thomas. I know I have to sign some documents and visit the notary to keep us on track.

--John

Tuesday

Our plan was to have breakfast out and to try some of the Hot Chocolate that I've heard is really rich. We had a hard time finding any place open. It was around 8 in the morning and we've realized that Russians really don't start their mornings until 10. We ended up eating breakfast at McDonald's as it was the only thing open. The place we were going to get the hot chocolate from didn't open until 10. So will have to try that another day.

We stopped and got a few groceries and headed back to the apartment. Our ride came at 10 to take us to the orphanage. It was a nice day, so they let us go outside and walk. Thomas was quiet. He's just very happy to be held, while he looks at everything going on around him. I hope that quiet curiosity lasts during the 11 hour flight home. They came at 2 to bring him back in for his lunch of pureed fish soup, that he missed earlier since we were visiting and his afternoon nap. So we drove back to Moscow and hit some bad traffic. It took us 2 and 1/2 hours to get back to the apartment. We spent the evening at the apartment and watched some tv. We went to bed but were woken around midnight to the sounds of fireworks. Looking out the window, they were doing a big fireworks display right over the Kremlin. We could hear it really well but the apartment building across the street was blocking most of the view. We checked the news to see what the event was, but never figured it out. Tomorrow, we're doing a tourist day. We'll probably head to the Kremlin museums.

Monday, June 22, 2009

Court Day


We had court at 10:30 in Moscow Regional Court. Our driver picked us up at 8:45, and we drove out to the suburbs of Moscow. The courthouse is brand new, built in 2006, and in an area of new office buildings. The court room was small with the judge, court reporter, social worker and prosecutor for the state there; along with John, myself and our translator. The judge went through the file, reading our paperwork: the dossier and homestudy we had submitted last fall. She also added our updated fingerprints and background checks to the file. I had to give a short statement covering why we wanted to adopt and why we would be good parents for Thomas. After going through all the paperwork, and everyone giving their statement of support, we were declared the parents.

Sunday, June 21, 2009

Sunday

Yesterday we drove out to the orphanage at 10. Since it was Sunday, everything was very quiet. The orphanage was doing major renovations last month when we were there. They appeared to be still in process. The play rooms are part of the area thats being renovated. The weather was too cold and rainy to go outside so we played in a small reception area. Thomas needed more room to move. At 12:30, they brought his bottles. He was having a pureed meat and potatoes meal and compote, which is a beverage made from stewing dried fruit in hot water. He drank a little but had no interest in lunch, he was too busy playing to take time for lunch. By 2, he was slowing down and getting tired for his afternoon nap. We headed back to Moscow.

We took a little nap ourselves, then headed to Old Arbat for dinner. We ate at My-My (pronounced Moo Moos and has a dairy cow theme) It is a Russian food chain restaurant, served cafeteria style. After 2 soups, 2 beef stroganoff's with potatoes and a shared chocolate cake, we walked down the rest of Old Arbat and stopped at a fancy grocery store on the corner. We just browsed all the display cases filled with fancy cakes, chocolates etc. We headed back to the apartment and headed to bed. We have court at 10:30 tomorrow, so wanted to make sure we got enough sleep.

Saturday, June 20, 2009

Back in Moscow

We are back in Moscow. We are staying in the same apartment as last time. It was exactly one month ago today that we arrived for the first visit. The last 3 weeks have been busy as far as getting paperwork in order, packing and getting the house ready for Thomas to come home. The FBI fingerprints finally arrived Monday of this week, after several phone calls to track them down. Amazing enough, the visas arrived in 2 days...they were returned before the fingerprints.

Our flights were fine. Everything left on time. Somehow we got the exit row, so we had tons of leg room. The airport was quiet. We had Violet pick us up. Last time, we had Katia. Violet said she was going to be our translator for court. We also have a different driver with a green van. We stopped and exchanged money and then met David at the apartment. John and I walked over to the market and picked up some food and then took a 5 hour nap.

Tomorrow, we go to the orphanage at 10 to see Thomas.

Tuesday, June 9, 2009

Court Date

We heard yesterday that we are headed back to Moscow.  We have a court date on June 22.  This was so fast, that it's shocking.  We are quickly trying to get arrangements made for the apartment rental, flights and visas.  Our fingerprints from the FBI have not come back yet, so waiting anxiously everyday to see if the mailman delivers them.  Next week will be the anxious wait for the visas to arrive.  

Monday, June 1, 2009

Home

We made it home and are working on getting back into the groove of life.  We had a fantastic experience, it really could not have gone better.  We are expecting to go back to Russia the beginning of July for court.  So at this point, we wait for court dates.

Friday, May 29, 2009

8 Doctor Physicals

We spent yesterday, at the hospital, having our 8 doctor physicals. The best way to describe it was like playing musical chairs popping in and out visiting different doctors. Only one spoke English, so our translator would stand behind a screen and translate "touch your toes" "breathe deep". We had chest x-rays to rule out tb done here in Russia but brought our lab results from the US for the bloodwork. We visited an oncologist, pulmonogist, dermatologist, narcologist, psychiatrist, neurologist, immunologist, and finally a primary care doc. John enjoyed seeing the hospital, and comparing the facilities, medical practices and procedures to his hospitals. We then had to wait for the head of the hospital to sign the official paperwork, so that part took the longest.

We then drove over to the office and dropped off our paperwork. We were then done for the day. Our driver dropped us off at our aparment and John and I walked over to the grocery across the street to get some bread. We had some dinner at the apartment, and then went walking the neighborhood north of us. Saw some beautiful old homes and several embassies. This is a wonderful time of year to be in Moscow, pleasant weather, beautiful flowers and just lots of stuff to see.

Thursday, May 28, 2009

Thomas

We have accepted our referral. He is a cute, curious, very busy 8 month old. The weather has been very pleasant and we were able to go outside in the stroller and walk for more than an hour today. We are very surprised that Thomas is so young...we were expecting a toddler around 2.

We have been much busier than we anticipated. The Moscow traffic is very congested and it takes several hours of driving a day to get to the orphanage and back...Vladimir is a very good driver...I have no worries about motion sickness. With the upcoming Russian White Nights, it stays light here so late...past 10pm and sunrise is around 4 am...you easily miss your normal bed time as you don't realize how late it is. Will try to update some more tomorrow.

Sunday, May 24, 2009

The Second Day-Sunday

We slept really well and had a morning of leisure. John flipped through the tv stations and at one point we were watching Foyle's War in English on the Hallmark Channel then flipped to an old Elvis movie on Turner Classic Movies.

We met Katia and Vladimir at 11 for a city tour. Being Sunday and raining, the traffic was very light. We went to Red Square first by St. Basil's Cathedral. The area was cordoned off with lots of security; police and military and teenagers or young 20 somethings in various military outfits (the women were all wearing skirts). Katia explained that the head of the Russian Orthodox Church was having a meeting at the Kremlin and a service at St. Basil's. We took some video of the Russian folk dancers and chorus singing...will try and upload at some future point.

We walked to GUM department store, which is something I've always wanted to see. I remember sitting in my Intro to Marketing class at Notre Dame, sophomore year and seeing pictures of GUM, and thinking I would really like to see that (at that time it was still the Soviet Union and GUM was considered the super luxurious place to buy goods) I guess its lost its cache or I've gotten jaded as it looked like any other upscale mall you would visit in a large city. We walked through quick. Katia took our picture at the center fountain.

We then stood in a short line to see Lenin preserved in his tomb. Katia said she would hold our cameras for us as they were not permitted. Had to go through metal detectors and then entered the building and wound down and through some passageways with everything made of dark stone. They had military guards stationed at every corner that just stood stiffly and stared straight out. So I found that very interesting/unnerving as you felt like you were being stared at yet they would not make eye contact. There purpose was to keep the line moving and not allow talking. Wound around where the glass case was and he looked like a pale, Madame Treussad wax figure. Then rounded the corner and popped out into the daylight. Walked through some gardens where Stalin and other famous Russians were buried. Just at that time, the Russian Orthodox priests in gowns and hats carrying icons and gold vessels emerged from the Kremlin gate. They formed a long parade from the Kremlin to St. Basils. Would have loved to have a picture but we were still behind the secure area and Katia was at the meeting point all the way across the square with our cameras. So missed that event. Will have to try and freeze that into memory.

Walked through Alexander Garden and saw the eternal flame for the grave of unknown soldier. The gardens were beautiful with all the tulips and lilacs in bloom. Vladimir picked us up on the other side of the gardens.





We drove to the Christ the Savior Cathedral and toured it (our apartment has a good partial view of the church). Katia stopped and explained a lot of the paintings and the different saints featured. They had relics from St. Nicholas (Santa Claus fame). Toured the lower Cathedral and museum. The cathedral was recently re-built in the 90's but you would never know, as it seems to be centuries old. We drove up to the high point of Moscow, where Moscow State University is (one of Stalin's 7 skyscrapers) but with the weather being so poor didn't spend a lot of time viewing the city. Just popped out, took a picture or two and popped back into the car. We did the same with the Novodichy Convent and park. After 3 hours of site seeing, we headed back to the apartment (flat as they like to say here)

Had some lunch. We made the mistake of just laying down to rest our eyes, and 3 hours later realized we just slept away the late afternoon-early evening. The last 2 days the weather has been rainy all day, then around 5 it clears off and gets sunny. We had planned to walk and stop for dinner but were moving slow from the nap and in the indecisive point of what to do since it was getting too late to do our plans. We went with the path of least resistance and decided just to walk to the 24 hour market and pick up dinner fixings. We did stop and visit a very large bookstore right near our apartment. Just browsed as everything was in Russian.

At the market, we picked up a few things. John picked up some blintzes/blini--not sure what the filling was. I was kind of surprised he was so daring, as he usually doesn't like the unknown. We picked up some pelmini that I was going to cook. Again, didn't know what the filling was as it was all Russian. They had lots of variety. John picked something in a red package that had "3" something. I was hoping it was 3 cheese. On the way home, John confessed that he saw a blini that the filling was oozing out and it looked like apple to him, so he matched the lettering on label. Aghh...that explains the daringness.

Got home, took a picture of our $20 purchase, and started to cook the pelmini. I realized right away it was some kind of meat...either beef or pork from the smell.










I sent John to go "google" the label so we would know what the mystery meat was that we were eating. He found the companies website with the ingredient list. It was 3 meat...beef, pork and lamb.


The one package I really wanted to avoid. We're not anti-meat but just are a little uncomfortable with processed Russian meat (and processed American meat, too). We ate it along with our cheap Russian white wine in the plastic, wine barrel package. We had no hopes that it was going to be good but figured we would wing it. It was very juicy and even though the label said wine (I can read that in Russian) it was more like fortified grape juice, but with the alcohol content we figured it would kill any off any germ in the mystery meat.

Cleaned up, watched some tv and headed to bed. The St. Basils/Cathedral/Red Square pictures are on the other camera and didn't get downloaded...so will add those at a future date.

Saturday, May 23, 2009

Arrived in Moscow

We got to the airport just as Delta was doing the cancel and consolidate thing with the 10:45 and 11 something flights to Atlanta. We were on the 10:45 flight just in case we needed a safety buffer for our 4 o'clock Atlanta flight to Moscow. So left Nashville on a completely full plane around noon. We found our gate for the Moscow flight and had high hopes that it was going to be a somewhat empty flight as it was completely quiet. We strolled down to the food court to burn some time, hit the restrooms one last time and returned to the gate to see a mob of people. Definitely not an empty flight. We actually left on time.
The flight was smooth and as pleasant as a 9 hour flight in a sardine can can be since every seat was taken. Our only complaint was that usually, we watch a movie or two during the flight since we never go to the movies. The plane was old and didn't have the nice seat back personal screens with movie choices, just the big screen at the front and the mini-tv's hanging. So didn't pay any attention to the 2 featured movies...Hotel for Dogs and Yes Man. So that being our biggest complaint...things were good. Dinner was actually even good for airplane food...chicken.



We landed just as it was starting to rain. We had to wait a few minutes while two ladies with heat detecting gun devices went through the cabin and took every passengers temperature to detect for flu. The one thing that struck me right away was how everybody follows direction so well. Everybody was up getting their bags out of the overhead bins, as usual, and then they made the announcement that everybody needed to sit back down as they needed to do the temperature scan. Everybody immediately sat and remained seating until they gave the "all clear". That never happens in the US.


We funneled out to passport control. They opened up 3 additional lanes as we got there, so we zoomed on through. No questions, nothing. The guy looked up once to verify my picture then stamped the visa and the registration card that non-Russian citizens fill out on the plane. We've had a much tougher time getting into Canada. We picked up the bag we checked and headed to the Customs Green line (nothing to declare) which was more like just a doorway than an actual line or checking place.

We didn't know who was picking us up. So we just scanned the crowd for somebody holding a card with our last name on it. We met Katia, who was younger than I expected. She called for the driver and we walked to the pick up spot and he was there in seconds. We loaded our checked bag and our carry on in the trunk. Reading other peoples blogs about their experiences, we knew to expect small cars with small trunks. We always travel very light, we usually never check a bag, but I did fill an entire bag with second trip stuff...orphanage donations, clothes, toys, a few cheap gifts, some snacks. My plan was to stick it in the CSS office closet between trip 1 and trip 2. So anyway, loaded up the car and got into a very small back seat that smelled like stale cigarettes. My knees were jammed up against the drivers seat and I noticed right away that it was a stick shift. My first thought was "I'm pretty sure at some point this week, I'm going to throw up." If you know me pretty well, you know I get very motion sick. Astronaut and pilot, were career choices I eliminated at an early age. John's driving around town even makes me sick. My fear of Moscow traffic and all the driving that is required, was a really big fear. But I think its going to be ok. Vladimir, our driver, seems to be very smooth, even with the manual transmission. So thats a happy miracle.

My first impression of Moscow was that it reminded me of the urban outskirts of Vienna. Lots of grey, concrete buildings interspersed with planned green areas and lots of neon signs and billboards. Katia/Vladimir took us to a money exchange. This is the part for us thats hard. We just have to trust that we're being taken care of by CSS and not being ripped off. Everything I had read on line about having unmarked, clean, crisp US dollars to convert, really didn't matter. I even ironed the money so it was super crisp (the paper has a high cotton content, so it irons very nicely) We went into a little booth and the money exchange lady behind the glass just put the stack of bills in the automatic counting machine and didn't even look at them. She then replaced the stack of bills with Rubles and ran that through the money counting machine and passed the stack through the window.

We then went to a grocery and Katia asked what we wanted. We picked up some spreadable cheese, bread, a frozen pizza (for that night we just don't feel like cooking) bottled water, cookies, bananas,etc. Just a few things. I noticed that Katia handed the check-out lady a card. But didn't know what it was for. Later on, at the apartment, I noticed on the receipt that it must have been a discount card as there was a discount 120 rubles (about $4). So I need to remember to thank her today for doing that as I was in my "just getting off an international flight fog" and didn't connect the dots.

We then went to the apartment. David from Best Moscow Apartments met us in the parking lot. We said goodbye to Katia & Vladimir and headed to the 19th floor trying to remember how to get back out. David, who's Australian, was very nice. He showed us the apartment, explaining how to use the satellite tv, get on the internet, use the washing machine, etc. The apartment looks just like the pictures http://www.bestmoscowapartmentrentals.com/ and look for the Anastasia apartment.

David opened up the little fridge and he had stocked it for us. We had butter, cheese, lunch meat, beer, water, juice, fruit, a fancy cake and really premium dark chocolates. The apartment is very nice. Its like somebody was living here and just left with all their clothes. Its got anything you would need....office supplies, full kitchen tools, even an Espresso machine.






We were walking zombies, at this point, as neither of us ever are able to sleep on planes. It was raining still, so we decided to nap. What a great nap. Five hours later, I got up. The rain had stopped and there was even a rainbow.

Feeling much better, John and I had a little bread and cheese snack then went walking. Our apartment seems to be in a convenient location. If looking out the window it looks down on New Arbat, which reminds me of the Strip in Vegas or maybe even a little of Times Square. We have a casino with lots of lights and neon and one of those jumbotron screens playing advertising out the window. Lots of traffic and people walking but since we're on the 19th floor, unless we open a window, we can't hear it. We walked up New Arbat to the beginning of Old Arbat. Walked down Old Arbat, which is a pedestrian only touristy type street with souvenir shops, 2 McDonalds, 2 Starbucks, etc. Then walked back to New Arbat and went to the 24 hour market that is across the street from our apartment. We bought some egg noodles and what I thought was breaded chicken cutlets and headed home. I cooked up the noodles and prepared to pan fry the chicken but realized they were thick, fish fillets. Had some really good tangerines from the apartment fruit basket. Dinner was good. We cut open the fancy cake and discovered it was a prune cake. Then went to bed.